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EPISODE #322
EMPOWERED BY THE SPIRIT: THE JOY OF CATHOLIC SCHOOLS

Deacon Steve Greco is a permanent deacon of the Diocese of Orange. He is founder of Spirit Filled Hearts Ministry, and host of Empowered by the Spirit. On this podcast episode, our very special guest is Dr. Erin Barisano, the Superintendent of Catholic Schools in the Diocese of Orange. Together they discuss the life-altering impact that Catholic schools can have on children and families.

For more, please visit spiritfilledevents.com

 

 

 

 

 

Originally broadcast on 10/23/22

EPISODE#74
CATHEDRAL SQUARE: REFLECTION FOR DEACON CANDIDATES

Welcome to another episode of Cathedral Square featuring host, Fr. Christopher Smith.

Listen and be fed by the anointed words of Fr. Christopher as he shares a reflection with candidates for the diaconate and their wives. His words are sure to inspire you!

 

 

 

 

Originally broadcast on 9/17/22

EPISODE #29
SOUNDS FROM THE SANCTUARY: CHILDREN’S CHOIR CAMP

Episode No. 29: Children’s Choir Camp

On this very special podcast of Sounds from the Sanctuary, you will hear the sounds of the closing mass celebration that was the culmination of Christ Cathedral’s Children’s Choir Camp for the Summer of 2022! Listen to special messages from Fr. Christopher Smith; and, enjoy some beautiful sacred music performed largely from our “choir camp kids!”

 

 

 

 

 

 

Originally broadcast on 8/6/22

EPISODE #302
EMPOWERED BY THE SPIRIT: RAISING A CATHOLIC FAMILY

Deacon Steve Greco is a permanent deacon of the Diocese of Orange, California. He is the founder of Spirit Filled Hearts Ministry, which engages in evangelization and support of the foreign missions. His guests for today’s podcast are a dynamic married couple named Ken and Laurie Shepardson. They have been married close to 30 years, all the while raising 11 children! Our topic today is all about raising a Catholic family in this modern world.

 

 

 

Originally broadcast on 4/3/22

CLASS ACT

With the fall semester upon us, many Catholic parents wonder how they can assure their children’s academic success – and what they can do to best support beleaguered teachers. 

“It’s a very challenging time, with so many different messages being sent from different sources,” acknowledges Mike Schabert, associate superintendent for marketing and enrollment for the Diocese of Orange Catholic Schools.  

“What it comes down to is that parents are the primary educators for their children,” Schabert continues. “The hallmark of Catholic education is that we recognize the importance of parental involvement, thus we have options to creatively meet children’s educational needs.” 

For students to move toward normalcy, Schabert notes, they require a sense of stability and a faith-filled environment, both of which are emphasized in OC Catholic schools. 

“We’re concerned about the social and emotional health of our students in addition to their studies,” agrees Denise Valadez, the OC Catholic schools’ associate superintendent of curriculum, spirituality, and accreditation. “They are suffering through this time and in the fall, they will carry this trauma with them. 

“Our schools are small enough so that our teachers know each child’s story,” she says, “which helps meet a key challenge for parents and children at a time when things are out of whack.” 

OC Catholic schools are poised to offer in-person classes should their waiver be approved by the California state government, but hybrid programs of live and streamed classes and fully online programs are available as well. 

“Our schools and principals are doing a lot of preparation to get up and running as we plan for any contingency,” Valadez declares.  

To ensure their children are best prepared to learn, Schabert says, it’s important for parents to be mindful of the challenges they are facing and to be flexible about study time, homework, and assignments. 

“First and foremost, we need open communication between parents and children, and between parents and teachers,” Valadez says. “Principals and schools are making concerted efforts to ensure that parents are sure of what’s happening with their children and providing a sense of transparency on curriculum resources, scheduling, and getting parents what they need to support students at home.” 

Successful at-home learning requires space for children to spread out their things and have a sense of privacy while still allowing for parental supervision. 

“Parents must be mindful of schedules and routine to give some sense of normalcy to their kids,” she notes. “It’s not healthy for kids to be in front of the computer for six hours, so they need to take breaks, get outside, and move around.” 

While local public schools may offer easily accessible online coursework, Valadez says, Catholic schools offer a curriculum featuring academic excellence with an emphasis on daily religion classes and frequent opportunities for prayer and introspection to cultivate and deepen children’s spirituality and faith.  

“Our Catholic faith is who we are,” she says. “We’re striving to maintain and strengthen that in a distance-learning world.” Teachers begin each day with prayer and school principals often lead weekly prayers as well. 

Recognizing that students, parents, and teachers are striving for success together is critical, Schabert says. 

“We recognize the challenges of being a parent with kids at home and the time and energy parents must invest,” he adds. “Many parents and teachers have double challenges with working full-time and trying to educate their children.” 

CONQUERING UNCERTAINTY

Facing an autumn of uncertainty, adult Catholics may experience feelings of anxiety, foreboding, boredom, and anger. For children, the unknown can be frightening – and downright threatening. 

In light of Gov. Gavin Newsom’s latest edict that closes public school classrooms, there’s less uncertainty about attending school in the midst of a global pandemic. Still, the fears and questions that remain in our kids’ minds – about their routines, classes, and playdates with friends – demand their parents’ communication, reassurance, and support. 

“Arguably, many families are being asked to do the impossible during these times,” acknowledges Linda Ji, the Diocese of Orange’s director of pastoral care for families in all stages. “We are forced to make choices among only undesirable options.” Among those choices is the responsibility to home-school children whose classrooms are closed, to keep them healthy, and to provide extracurricular enrichment activities as well. 

Communication is paramount to calming children’s anxieties, even when it’s not clear what the future will bring, says Margery Arnold, an Irvine-based child psychologist.  

“Speak to your children when you are calm yourself,” Arnold advises. “You can tell them the facts, what is known and unknown, and ask them about their thoughts and feelings.  

“Every time the family goes through something difficult, if children are part of the solution it helps them develop resilience and have hope.” 

Asking children what they know, what they have heard, and what they fear will happen is the best place to start, she says. “Communication is how we keep each other safe in this culture, where we have so many freedoms. It’s critical to keeping our kids safe.  

“If parents don’t know what their kids are experiencing, they can’t guide or protect them. We must keep the doors of communication open.” 

While uncertainty can be intimidating to even the most well-adjusted of us, Arnold says, it’s important for family members to remember the lessons we’ve already learned and recognize the hardships we’ve successfully overcome.  

“Kids are remarkably good at handling uncertainty,” she observes. “We’ve been surprised and challenged by things in particular during the COVID-19 crisis. But challenges make us stronger.” 

Loving relationships and intentional family rituals are important in times of crisis, Ji notes. “It is in the little ways we love each other that our homes and families are transformed and consecrated to Christ. 

“This does not mean just teaching our children how to pray or creating family prayer rituals, although of course it is good for families to pray together,” she explains. “All of the ‘mundane’ things we do – chores, work, play, school at home during a pandemic – can be sacred when done together with intentionality and love. 

“This is a kind of domestic spirituality that will help us through and nourish our faith as well as the faith of our children.” 

She concurs that consistent communication is crucial to a functional family. “Communication is essential for fostering intimacy and loving relationships in the home that is the basis of faithful Christian family living.” 

Ji emphasizes that parents must take care of themselves first so they can model well and care for their children. “We start with our strengths, and work on what we value most. Celebrate successes no matter how small and know we can’t do it all.”

EPISODE #247
EMPOWERED BY THE SPIRIT: TESTIMONY OF DEACON STEVE AND MARY ANNE GRECO

We have a very special podcast to bring you today. This audio was captured before a live audience at a large Catholic conference a couple of years ago. It features the host of the Empowered by the Spirit radio program, Deacon Steve Greco (and his wife Mary Anne). They have been married now for close to 50 years; and, they talk about some of the trials and triumphs that they’ve dealt with throughout their lives together.

This is one POWERFUL testimonial session that you will want to share with others!

 

 

 

 

 

Originally broadcast on 6/21/2020

EPISODE #244
EMPOWERED BY THE SPIRIT: RAISING A CATHOLIC FAMILY TODAY

Our studio was rather full the day we recorded this particular show (it was just before the COVID-19 pandemic hit). The Yep family joins Deacon Steve Greco for today’s podcast installment. Thomas and Christina Yep will be speaking about family life and raising their 4 young children. They’ll also talk about an organization they founded called ‘House of Royals.’

www.houseofroyals.com

 

 

 

 

 

Originally broadcast on 5/24/2020

MORE TIME

It started when our middle child went off to study at UC Berkeley and grew worse when our youngest left for UC Davis last September.  

Nobody needed me to pick them up from baseball or football practice, help them with assignments, or whip up a big family dinner.  

For the first time in decades, I had free time. I didn’t know what to do with myself. I missed the 24/7 demands of mothering three healthy, active kids. I felt adrift. 

Still, I wasn’t alone. Some experts estimate that up to 75 percent of parents experience some symptoms of empty-nest syndrome, the time of transition following the departure of your last child from the family home, whether for college, marriage, or a job in a different town.  

For many parents, says Lisa Klewicki, a clinical psychologist and Divine Mercy University professor, this time of transition can be distressing.  

“The difficulty of adjusting to your changing role as a parent can lead to feelings of sadness, loneliness, and diminished purpose in life,” she writes in Catholic Digest. 

While people attribute the majority of empty-nest-related issues to moms, research shows that it hits dads just as hard, notes therapist and author Gregory Popcak. 

But it’s not all bad news, notes Popcak in “Feathering Your Empty Nest,” published by the Pastoral Services Institute. “For parents who are prepared, research shows that the empty-nest years can be a great time for getting new levels of enjoyment out of your marriage and your personal life,” he says.  

 

Couples Time 

While adjusting to our empty nest took time, I’m happy now. My husband Les retired last year and we’re doing more together, like the hike we took last weekend in Santiago Oaks Regional Park. 

Les is my personal trainer and we hit the gym twice a week. We took a class in Greek cooking last summer and next month will learn to cook Chinese dumplings. I’m also signing us up for a swing dancing class. 

We enjoy Philharmonic Society and Pacific Symphony concerts and plan to spend a long weekend with friends in Palm Springs next month. Last year we took trips to London, Vancouver and Victoria, and the Portland area. We’re discussing a big European trip to celebrate our 35th wedding anniversary in June. 

 

Time for Myself 

The empty nest means I can read novels, listen to true crime podcasts, spend time with my mother, and pursue long-delayed hobbies. I take yoga and go for long walks with blues or rock music throbbing in my headphones. I’ve always wanted to study Tai Chi but never had time – and I just earned my grey belt.  

Perhaps most important, I’ve set up a prayer table in the living room next to the fireplace with a candle and my Catholic Bible, rosary, prayer books and books about the saints.  

I finally have the time to develop and sustain a prayer life. 

Klewicki is right when she says an empty nest can be enjoyable. “If you are struggling,” she advises, “know that this stage of life does not need to be a time of suffering. Don’t miss out on this valuable time of your life. Make it something to look forward to with enthusiasm and excitement.”

TALKING ABOUT GOD AND GRIEF WITH CHILDREN

February is a tough month for our family, bringing the anniversaries of our twins’ deaths. Each year I find myself answering hard questions from our sons about their sisters. Why did they die? Where are they now? Will I get to see them again? 

As a parent who is theologically trained (and personally affected), I find it fascinating to reflect on children’s perspectives on grief and loss. Kids ask the same questions as adults, crystallized to their purest form. They are unashamed to express intense emotion — if given safe space. 

In past generations, well-meaning professionals counseled parents to protect children from life’s losses. Research now affirms that both adults and children benefit from talking openly about death and learning to cope with loss in healthy ways. 

A child old enough to love is old enough to grieve. Studies have shown that even the youngest children can be affected by the disruptions that grief brings to a family. 

Here are three questions I often hear children (and adults) ask while grieving. While I’m not a clinical counselor or a medical professional, I can speak to the theological realities behind these questions — and encourage you to draw from your own faith when children in your family are touched by grief. 

 

Why did God let this happen? 

The problem of suffering surfaces as quickly for children as for adults. Did God want this to happen? Why did God answer other prayers but not ours? How can we trust that God is still good? 

Scripture speaks of God weeping with us (Jn 11:35), promising to destroy grief (Rv 21:4) and desiring life, not death (Ez 18:32). Sharing these stories with children can open up new ways of understanding God after loss. 

Older kids and teenagers can tackle thornier discussions: the doctrine of free will, the nature of sin and the reality of evil. But for all who mourn, remembering that God remains with us in sadness and suffering is what we need to hear first and foremost when someone we love has died. 

 

Will I die, too? 

Children are quick to worry once faced with mortality. Will my mom and dad die now? If I get sick, am I going to die? 

While we can assure kids that modern medicine is powerful, it’s equally true that healing is a mystery. Some people recover, some die and none of us will be here on earth forever. Faith means embracing mystery and trusting in what we cannot fully understand. 

Reminding children of God’s particular love for them can bring comfort. God created them and knows them (Is 43:1). God counts each of their hairs (Mt 10:30). God calls them by name (Jn 10:3). 

 

Are they in heaven? 

Young children are often preoccupied with physicality. Where did my friend go? Why can’t I see Grandpa anymore? 

When we mourn at any age, it helps to remember what the church teaches about salvation and resurrection. We pray that our beloved dead are in the hands of God. We hope to see them again in heaven. We stay connected through the communion of saints, asking them to pray for us and believing they remain united with us in love beyond what we can see. 

Grieving children (and adults) need reassurance and reminders of God’s love through life’s hard times. We don’t have to hide the truth or offer easy answers in order to share God’s comfort. 

Sitting with kids’ questions, making space for their emotions and surrounding them with love reflects our faith in the God who welcomed children and wept with mourners — the God who knows grief.