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Originally broadcast on 6/12/21

CHURCH CAN’T BE BLIND, DEAF TO PEOPLE WITH SPECIAL NEEDS, POPE SAYS

VATICAN CITY (CNS) — The Catholic Church must be welcoming and creative in finding ways to not let people’s physical, psychological or intellectual limitations keep them from encountering God, Pope Francis said.

“The church cannot be ‘mute’ or ‘tone deaf’ when it comes to the defense and promotion of people with disabilities,” he told differently abled individuals, their families and pastoral workers and professionals who work with them.

Words and gestures of outreach and welcoming must never be missing from any church community, so that everyone, particularly those whose journey in life is not easy, can encounter the risen Lord and find in that community “a source of hope and courage,” he said Oct. 21.

The pope spoke during an audience with 450 people taking part in a conference sponsored by the Pontifical Council for Promoting New Evangelization. The gathering Oct. 20-22 was dedicated to sharing best practices in engaging and catechizing persons living with disabilities — a topic Pope Francis had specifically asked the council to look into, conference organizers told Catholic News Service.

Fortunately, the pope told the group, there has been progress over the past decades in recognizing the rights and dignity of all people, especially those who are more vulnerable, leading to “courageous positions on inclusion” so that “no one feels like a stranger.”

However, attitudes that are often “narcissistic and utilitarian” still abound, marginalizing people with disabilities and overlooking their human and spiritual gifts, he said.

Also still too pervasive is an attitude of refusal of any potentially debilitating condition, believing it would be an obstacle to happiness or the full realization of oneself, he said.

It’s an attitude, the pope said, that is seen in today’s “eugenic tendencies to kill unborn children who display some form of imperfection.”

But “in reality, all of us know many people who, even with their serious frailties, have found — even with difficulty — the path of a good life, rich in meaning,” he said, and “we know people who are outwardly perfect” yet full of despair.

“It’s a dangerous deception to believe in being invulnerable,” he said, since vulnerability is part of the essence of being human.

Two participants from the United States, who were part of the conference organizing committee, and a father of a young woman with Down syndrome told CNS that the usual approach of “special programs” for people with particular needs should change because they can become a form of segregation.

For example, Sister Kathleen Schipani recalled how dark and lonely it was going to an empty school late every Wednesday night for a parish program meant for children with disabilities.

Sister Schipani, who leads the office for persons with disabilities and the deaf apostolate at the Archdiocese of Philadelphia, said the model they are pursuing is to have one parish religious education program for everyone, but with options for smaller breakout groups, one-on-one instruction or other methods that can address individuals’ particular needs.

Janice Benton, executive director of the National Catholic Partnership on Disability based in Washington, D.C., said too much focus on providing special programs also has meant some people get turned away from their neighborhood parish because the church doesn’t have a program accommodating a specific disability.

“The first thing is welcome the person,” she said, and speak with them; the church is more than a collection of programs, it’s about relationships with each other and with God. “It’s not so much having the skills or having the professionals, it’s knowing the person and then just an ordinary way of expressing how they belong to the church” in catechetical formation, participating in the liturgy in some way or parish activities, said Sister Schipani, a member of the Sisters of the Immaculate Heart of Mary.

Also, a policy for creating media should be that it is planned from the start with everyone in mind, so that a video, for example, has both visual captions and audio narration since digital platforms “can get less accessible” if they rely too much on one style or format, said Benton.

Not only do people with disabilities miss out on support and the sacraments, the whole church community loses by not including their differently abled brothers and sisters in Christ, said Blase Brown, whose 31-year-old daughter, Bridget Mary, runs ButterfliesForChange.org and is a public speaker about life with Down syndrome.

“The gifts she has to share, particularly at the level of her faith” he said, are “an untapped, beautiful” resource. The question he always asks, he said, is why don’t dioceses put more focus on “how day-to-day parish life, religious education, schools, liturgy” can include people with various disabilities rather than come up with activities that sideline them.

Being together, he said, is “the highest level of respect.”

There might be some disruption or distraction when people with disabilities are more widely welcomed, he said, just like when a baby cries from the pews. “This is who we are, we are people. This is living. This is life. Everybody belongs at the table and sometimes somebody is going to be disruptive and you deal with it,” said Brown, who lives in the Diocese of Joliet, Illinois.

Sister Schipani said priests can make all the difference by setting the tone and the example for the rest of the parish. Priests can talk “from the pulpit” and parish bulletins can explain about being welcoming, patient and comfortable with families with children and adults with disabilities. Ushers, too, can help by “modeling really wonderful ways of welcoming and including and giving people choices” about seating arrangements, she added.

FIRST BLIND, THEN BLESSED

True story. One Saturday morning I found myself sinking in the quick sand that is envy as I cleaned my too-small kitchen. In a home that’s just over 1,800 square feet, the kitchen might well be the smallest room in our house, save the guest bath. It’s so tight that you can’t open the refrigerator door and the dishwasher at the same time. And opening the oven creates a high-temp, treacherous obstacle course for anyone daring to pass through. If the kitchen is the heart of the home, then we’ve got real circulation problems. The room was barely big enough to host the pity-party I was indulging myself in when my then-15-year-old son phoned to ask me to pick up he and his friend from the mall.

Pulling out of the busy mall parking lot, wedged between two cars at a long red light and baking in the summer sun, my son noticed a man on the sidewalk holding a “homeless” sign.

“He looks hot and tired,” my son said sympathetically from our air-conditioned car. The temperature was approaching 95 outside. “We should give him some money.”

“Here, give him the classified ads,” I said callously, handing over a section of the newspaper. “There are lots of jobs out there.”

I was hot, too.

“Where will he sleep tonight?” my son asked slowly as though counting the beads of perspiration on the man’s forehead. “What will he eat? We should give him some money.” All of a sudden he moved from impulse to action and began digging for cash. He pulled out a $5 bill and opened the car door.

“No!” I stopped him. “Here. Give him this dollar bill and save your money.” I hated to see my son being taken advantage of by this man who could clearly find work if he tried harder.

He jumped out of the car to personally hand over a tiny bit of aid to the homeless man, much to the dismay of the cars behind us who missed the green light.

My son was quiet as we drove to his friend’s house, deep in thought. As his friend bounded out of the back seat, my son paused. Leaning on the door, his head still halfway in the car, I noticed the pained look on his face. “I feel so sorry for that man,” he said with genuine concern. “Can you imagine not having anywhere to go tonight?” His question lingered. “We are so lucky, Mom, to have what we have.”

“You’re right,” I said humbly, thinking about my tiny kitchen.

We try so hard to raise decent human beings. Sometimes we succeed, in spite of ourselves.

Note: That was 12 years ago. Since then, I’ve discovered Mercy House, Isaiah House, and Casa Teresa – ministries that don’t judge, but rather serve those who are most in need; those, who even though able bodied, have fallen into circumstances where they simply aren’t capable of working. Those organizations need your support. Give generously.